Planning a funeral can be a rollercoaster of emotions, like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle. One element often overlooked amidst the chaos is selecting the right flowers and gifts. Not only do flowers convey your sentiments when words fail, but they also serve to honor the departed in a way that transcends mere mortals. Here’s how to get it right without turning into a dithering mess.
When Aunt Agnes passed, I stood in front of a wall of flowers at the local florist, overwhelmed and about to cry. I mean, who knew there were so many kinds?
First, consider the relationship with the deceased. Close family members often opt for large, eye-catching arrangements. Think of something grand, like a floral Picasso. Friends and colleagues usually go for something more understated. It’s the floral equivalent of the ‘little black dress’ – always appropriate, never too flashy.
Colors matter too. White stands for purity, peace, and innocence. Red radiates love and respect. Blue can offer solace and serenity. It’s like painting with emotions, but better because they smell good. Your choice of color can speak volumes when your words run dry.
Oh, and the type of flower? Carnations signify pride and beauty. Orchids stand for eternal love. Forget-me-nots? Ever seen a rose blush from embarrassment? Me neither, but roses in shades of pink convey grace, admiration, and joy.
Remember my Aunt Agnes? She was quite the party starter, always the life and soul. For her, bright and cheerful flowers seemed fitting – like a bouquet of sunshine in a sea of tears. But for a more somber, reserved individual, muted tones might be better. It’s all about matching the flower to the personality. Like finding the right DJ for a wedding, only sadder and less dancing.